Monday 13 February 2012

how its work...

Does distance makes the heart forget?  I am specify  it to a love relationship.I believe that some will be true.But how can you be sure that distance will always be the main factor to determine the happiness of a relationship. Those who experienced it know how it brings to the happiness or the other way around. Long distance relationship might sounds unusual and of course challenging! and it gives a higher risk too. But if we stand strong for it ,there's nothing that can stop you .There's nobody that can persuade you to do things that make you end the relationship even your family or your bestfriends.


I know how's the feeling of facing this because I used to have a long distance relationship . The people around us play the main roll too. Some will always be near to us and advice so much things just to show how dangerous it is. Some will always support to say that there's nothing that impossible. And not to be forgotten some will always down us by saying a long distance love can never be trusted can never be stay and can never be great !But let's see how it goes to a positive side. We are going to appreciate more. We are going to realize that we actually need him/her more than we thought. It will keep your connection alive and thanks to those internet and handphones we have today. To me, being busy is not a reason for you to leave your  beloved without any words for a day. How great if you can keep in touch everyday even you cant see each other right? ok not enough money to pay the bills to call him/ her everyday everytime.? Then texting each other when you both are free is enough. too busy and no time to texting ? ok so just send a text a day ' baby i miss you ' for today or 'honey please take care ' for tomorrow .Only a msg will change the whole day of your lover,,,that was im thinking about the most of the time,,,a single text from you make me smile one whole day:] So there’s no reason for you to subscribe to that rubbish “distance makes the heart forget”! And a thing that play a major part is to not be secreted with your partner. Share how your day goes and who are your new friends. And if we are told these things, we shouldn't be mad !ok but still loks at the situation : ) by then if both of you were free spends time with them,,but im not saying every weeks or what,,that will course lots of money,,let say in a month spend time with he\she in two times,,that will be much enough:]

i just said that sometimes we do need someone to talk,,to share problems and so on!!

just inspired by someone who i do really adore by posting this entry:]
thanks yaw sister..both of us are really meant to be together:] MAN AND WOMAN:]



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