Can you completely accept someone regardless of their past ? Or are some things are just too much ?

Can you completely accept someone regardless of their past ? Or are some things are just too much ?

Let's make it this way, can you imagine falling in love with someone. And for sure, bila kau dah decide untuk move on to the next phase from friends to something special, there are times yang you get to know each other more. I mean, ada part dalam diri kita, kita nak dia tahu. Ada yang bagitahu kelemahan, ada yang bagitahu apa yang suka or tak suka.

Dan, ada juga yang nak berterus terang. Pasal apa apa, dalam masa silam dia.

The thing about past is, what I mean was something yang,kadang kadang kita sebagai manusia susah nak terima kalau orang dah buat. For instance, what if someone we love, back then, they did something "really bad". What if they did something illegal. What if they did things that you can't even imagine. Will it change the way you look towards them ? Will it ? Well some part of it,yes.

The thing is.

Kadang kadang, kita selalu alpa. Yang manusia semua buat kesilapan. Bukan aku nak kata, yang kita ni bebas buat kesilapan dan orang bebas memaafkan. It's just that, manusia kadang kadang, bila tiba masa bodoh tak berfikirnya, buat juga benda benda yang tak patut dibuatnya. Kalau selama kita hidup kita dapat hindar buat benda tu semua, itu mungkin bonus bagi kita. Tapi, bagi orang lain, anggap sahaja lah, yang itu dosa pahala antara dia dengan tuhan. Bukan dengan kita. Kita siapa untuk judge lebih. Can we consider it that way ?

Mungkin, cara aku berfikir masih lain dari apa yang orang lain fikir ? Mungkin.

Bukan apa, kadang kadang, bila dah tahu tu. Terkaku. Terdiam pun ada. Tapi bila fikir balik. Selagi benda itu tidak melibatkan aku, apa salahnya beri dia peluang untuk menjadi someone new and someone even better ?

Orang yang baik, tak selamanya boleh jadi baik.

Dan orang yang jahat, tak selamanya takkan berubah untuk nak menjadi baik.

Cuma kadang kadang, dia perlukan sokongan dan bimbingan. Mungkin.

Atau mungkin aku sahaja yang cuba nak pandang benda ni semua sebagai sesuatu yang positive ?

Ah,mungkin.

What I know is, people make mistakes. You can't afford to not make mistakes. Mistakes make us who we are. To be a better person. To be wiser in life. It's just that sometimes, some people choose to do it again and again, because some people will never learn.

Benda dah lepas. Apa yang perlu kita ungkitkan lagi,bukan ? HM.

To be true, it's wrong to judge someone's past. Maybe the real thing all along is, whatever they have done in their past, good things or even bad, screw all of it. Be there for them, and help them to be someone better.

Bimbing orang jadi yang lebih baik,tak salah bukan ?

Mungkin dalam masa yang sama, kita bimbing diri kita juga.

Aku tak rasa semua orang suka masa silamnya dikritik. Dikata bodoh, dikata tidak berakal. Semua ada masa masa gelap dan naif dan terlebih diorang. Cuma kisahnya berbeza beza.

People don't land on earth just in time for you to receive them for your relationship with no past in tow. Everybody has past and it's called a past for a reason : It was a time, before YOU came along.

So take them by their hand, and help them.

Don't judge them. Help them. Because when you start pointing fingers, you shall remember one thing. What goes around, comes around. Kau kata orang, satu hari nanti kau yang buat. Baru kau tahu terkena batang hidung sendiri.

If you can't accept someone's past, then don't accept them at all. Remember, what you are in your past, makes who you are right now. People make mistakes, give them a chance.

Open your eyes, look within.

In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life, it goes on.

Have you ever wonder for all those years of living, did you became the person you thought you would be when you were a kid, or ur just someone that you swore you'd never be ?

I often have these random thoughts late at night. Thinking about the future kill me at times. Being afraid about who I end up with, will I have the opportunity to live my dreams, or even, will I succeed in making my parents proud. The truth is, whenever I got the chance to think about it, I get terrified. Because I often have these thoughts that I may not be who I wanted to be, or even, I may not own the good things in life in the future.

But one thing that everyone kept telling me was life goes on no matter what, and god is fair. For everything you've done brings you to another road that you should be prepared to take all the risks that are planned for you. And all of those situations will lead towards something else. If it turns out to be good, that's what I call happiness. If it turns out the other way around, maybe that's god's way in telling us to be tougher, and strive harder and of course, remember 'him' through our good and bad times.

We can't predict the future. That's why.

Kadang kadang, pilihan yang baik tak semestinya bawa kita kepada something yang baik hasilnya. Kadang kadang, pilihan yang tak patut kita buat beri impact yang besar dalam hidup. Ada masa baik, ada masa buruk. Kalau buruk pun, untuk kita belajar. Dan kita tak ulang kesilapan yang sama.

Tapi, kita manusia kan ?

Kalau ulang tu sebenarnya, memang kita. Nak sedapkan hati, kata tengah usaha lagi mana tahu hasilnya berubah. Tapi ada masa, terselit perasaan rasa diri tu jahil sebab ada alternatif lain tapi masih berkeras nakkan yang sama.

Depends, pada hati masing masing. 

Hidup sendiri, sendiri pilih.

Secara jujur,

Aku sentiasa cuba nak perbaiki cacat cela diri ni dari segi perbuatan, tutur kata, kesungguhan dan sebagainya. Ada masa aku gagal, tapi itu tak bermakna aku berhenti mencuba. Aku tahu, hati ini kental. 

Kalau tak kental,

Dah lama aku terjun bilik tgkt 9 ni. Tapi aku tak pernah terfikir nak buat.

Mungkin sebab aku pun gayat sebenarnya. Okay.

Where there is desire, there is gonna be a flame

Where there is a flame, someone's bound to get burned

But just because it burns, doesn't mean you're gonna die

You've gotta get up and try